Does anyone have any idea how to get the husband to be the one to leave the family home. we both know that this relationship is way OVER! I am so stressed out when he's here. I just think that I should stay at the house with my young daughter. I have told him this, over a year ago. I quit cooking for him, stopped doing his laundry, moved out of the bedroom and bathroom and don't clean it anymore. Staying here is the most stable thing for our daughter, but she and I leaving is the second choice. Staying here with him is not an option! Any ideas anyone?